Nov 30, 2006

SEXUALLY SOBER???



Yes Folks, it's getting to that point. It's been a year now, that I've abstained and have been "Sexually Sober." No sir, I don't like it. I figured out the place to be though, other than having to go bar hopping. It's not genius to think this one up but it sure feels it. I can drink coffee and try to help these poor souls with their addiction. I will show them how to have healthy sex and I do mean healthy. I will do my part and give back by lending a kind hand and an understanding heart. This is definetly one of those good feel things to do, right? My Mama didn't raise no dummy, woohoo!!


Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) is a fellowship similar to Alcoholics Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, and Sexaholics Anonymous, and is focused on addiction to various sexual behaviors, collectively called sexual addiction. In the same way that Al Anon is a counterpart to AA, COSA, or co-sex addicts anonymous or Codependents of Sex Addicts Anonymous, is a counterpart to SAA.

It is open to "all who share a desire to stop addictive sexual behavior".


12 comments:

Greg said...

After I first came out, I dated someone for a few months who was a member of SCA.

Babsbitchin said...

greg, were those the best days of your life? lol I'm searching vigorously.
Big Love !!

it's not me babs said...

Hello... My name is Chuck, it has been 2 years this Christmas since I have tapped any ass. Oh, don't get me wrong, I have sex all of the time, I just wish it wasn't by myself for a change.

Old Knudsen said...

Babs I think you've tapped a vein, I am currently googling SA in my area, excellent plan, um to help the poor sick bastards, it must be tough on them, hehehe.

Babsbitchin said...

it's not me Chuck, since you know how to do it alone, you would be a fine example to the people. It's your obligation to go and show these people how to do it alone or how to have healthy sex.You may want to teach them your technique as I hear it's all in the wrist, right? Well, that and slow to fast fast faster motion, wow!

Babsbitchin said...

old knudsen, I just know you're a weath of knowledge in this dept. You must share this with some poor lassie who's known nothing but gorilla love over and over again. I know I'm aroused, I mean inspired by the prospect!

RICH said...

well, I like sex and some would say just because I would ideally like to have sex everyday would qualify me as an adict, BUT I'm not doing this so I guess I'm not an addict by default. whatta ya think Babsy??

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, well, my personal opinion may not count. When my ex-husband had to go to Anger Mgmt. classes, they touched on the subject of sex, innuendo and withholding. Every guy in the room stated that their wives had withheld sex from them, cut them off and so on. My husband went last and it dawned on him, that I had never told him no, through 19 years of being together. They didn't believe him and asked, "What, is she a nympho or something?I'm not a nympho but I think I enjoyed sex as much as he did. That could also be the only reason I stayed with him, all those years because he was a good lover. It took a while for him to figure it all out but once we got the groove of things, it was monkey love from then on. He told them, laughingly, "Besides, she can't cut me off anyway. She doesn't know where I'm getting it!" That wasn't true as he valued his life too much but a good woman puts out to a good man, right?
Boy, that was long and drawn out and I think I need a shower, hahaha!! You're just fine, Rich!!

RICH said...

hmmmm my ex wife never said no to me nor anyone else for that matter.

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, oh shit, say it isn't so, damn! lol!! Poor thing, I hate to hear shit like that, it gives us honest girls a bad name! lol!

RICH said...

Well to protect the innocent, I didn't mention which Ex wife I was referring to. So Anyone that knows me will have to just keep guessing.

Babs, I know you are an "Honest girl"
I've always had a thing for "bad girls" though oh well too bad eh?

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, the only honest thing, I ever did in my life was NOT fool around on my men. I suppose because I saw what it did to my Dad when he knew my Mom was fooling around, it impacted me. I was a complete Jezebel when not in a relationship, you can bet your ass. But if you were coming home to my bed that night, I would never fuck around. It's one of my biggest principles. My 2nd ex fooled around on me once. We were just talking about it and he said, "After you shot out my windshield, exactly where my head would've been, flattened my tires, took my coil wire, ripped out the stereo and destroyed all my cassette tapes, I figured out you were rather serious about it." Yes, I was dead serious and he's lucky he lived to tell. That is the only honest code I'd lived by, the only. If you only knew, you'd not call me honest. The other bullshit would cloud that perception. I was a paper hanger, master forger, 2nd story woman and a big brawler.