Dec 6, 2006

A TRAINWRECK, HUH???

I happened to look at my site meter tonight and followed a link and found this. I'm just not sure, if I like this label; racist, semi-illiterate and so on. Looks to me, like there is some rather judgmental blathering going on.
But I will wear that bitch right on the runway and work it!

30 comments:

Joshua Xalpharis said...

Fuck 'em.

I'm sure you have dealt with greater annoyances in your lifetime. No use sweatin' the small stuff.

Butchieboy said...

They seem to derive a great deal of enjoyment from your blog. You should be happy. They were saying that it could be as good as Kyle's (whoever the fuck that is). Mabye they'll give you an award or something.

Lynn said...

To hell with them, honey. They don't know shit.

Chuck said...

fuck 'em, people who have no origional ideas have to prey on other people like locust, so just fuck 'em and don't honor them with another thought. did i mention, to just fuck 'em? if you're not clear on that refer to joshua xalpharis, he has the right idea, fuck 'em and don't sweat the small dicks... i mean small stuff.

fuck 'em!

Babsbitchin said...

joshua xalpharis, you do have a point and yes I have. Is it a blog critic squad or what? Hey thanks for the comment and stopping by, I hope you'll visit again, we'll do coffee or have a drink, ok?

Babsbitchin said...

butchieboy, I read some of it and this Kyle character is someone I'm supposed to meet or some shit. I got a lot of hits from it, is that good or bad? Who knows?

Babsbitchin said...

lynn, you're a good friend. Now, in light of the current agenda, I would question your sanity, lol! You must know by now, that I appreciate you and your kind comments! I hope you have a good, no, great gosh darn good, day!

Babsbitchin said...

chuck, you're my sweetheart. I'm tattooing your name on my butt as I write this. Really, you've been an excellent friend and I love ya Snookums, really I do!

RICH said...

hey stirring up contraversy is good. It means you are having an impact on people.. keep up your harsh honesty babs

RICH said...

oh by the way... do you have any more room on your butt for my name babs???

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, is that what it is, controversy? Of course, I am always looking in the mirror but I have never seen myself as a racist and truly never thought I was semi-illiterate. How did I manage to get through college? It's quite odd to me, just how people can perceive things.
I have a big ass, a huge canvas and I'll be putting your name on there next. You've made me feel better and I appreciate that, my friend, thank you Rich. BTW, I have a few questions, of a medical nature. Would it be inappropriate for me to email you?

Anonymous said...

fuck em Babs. I have read you every morning with my coffee for more than a year. You make me laugh, you make me think, you've even brought a tear to my eye. You are the real deal and if they can't see that, fuck em.
Big Jake Jackson

Babsbitchin said...

Big Jake, I appreciate your kindness. Please keep coming back as we're doing this shit One Day at a Time, right? Thanks and big hugs!

RICH said...

Babs feel free to email me but as always you'll be taking your chances asking me anything

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, did I scare you? lol! Actually, all I want to know is if they can tell, definitively, if things or a nerve is not working up to par? In other words, if one is half assed, another is ok and another is pretty shitty, can they tell this sort of thing?

frog with a blog said...

Hey Babs, I want to be tattooed on your butt too!

Babsbitchin said...

Frog, the name Mickelino, was on there a long time ago!
Big Love for ya Frog!

Anonymous said...

Hey Babs,
Let the kamikaze squads know they can simmer down - if y'all'd take a minute and read the comments, you'd see that the "dude, she rocks, I'm diggin' it" comments are in the VAST majority. A few people want you to be their neighbor. It's not a gangbang - you've inspired about the closest to a group hug I've ever seen on the TW board.

I'll admit, the ethnic remarks here rub me the wrong way (the tilak *is* a religious symbol, and for someone who says she won't laugh at others' expense, that's... pretty much what you did there,with the scratch-off bit) but I agree with you that there doesn't seem to be any hatred or anger there. Perhaps just a lack of realization that others, having been fortunate enough to have fewer and softer knocks than you've had, find such things insulting, hurtful, or uninformed. I think we need a word that differentiates between the hateful, angry racism, and the "why would that be offensive, blacks DO eat watermelon!" kind of "racism."

Anyway, that quibble aside, I knew a few people years ago who were on the H, and they're all dead now. My hat's off to you for kicking it. If you handled that, you can handle ANYthing. Including being trainwrecked. (And it's not even a real trainwreck - it's kind of a Sally Field moment, trainwreck lite. "They like you! They really like you!"

ta

Kellie said...

I followed the link in here from trainwreck and I gotta say - You're fucking awesome!! I love your blog - the way you turn a phrase - the way you face your demons.

You are a strong woman with something to say. Bookmarked for future reading.

Thanks!

Babsbitchin said...

anonymous, yes the kamikaze squad has slapped the dog shit outa me. I stand corrected. Thank you for the kind words, they are appreciated. I feel as I do but really don't care to be called a racist and until people can really look at their own shit, I guess I'll play PC. Damn that really hurts just to say it. lol

Babsbitchin said...

Kellie, in spite of all this and my "Labeling" lol, I still love to laugh at the bullshit in life. I'm just sorry no one else is laughing. Life is way too short for the dumb shit. You take care and thanks!

Anonymous said...

The kamikaze squad I meant was your buddies posting at TW... it's great that they want to come to your defense and all, but... if they'd actually read, they'd see there's really no need to. (That part is close to qualifying for TW status - the part where everyone's all het up about it.)

One other thing that was sitting on my mind and I wanted to say... you said somewhere that you aren't afraid to say what everyone else thinks, that you say it loud and proud while the rest of us lay around and lie to ourselves, or something like that. And... not necessarily true. Some of us say our own stuff loud and proud, just the same way you do - just because it's different than what you say doesn't mean it's less valid, ya know?

I would never tell/post/laugh at the "dot on the forehead" joke thing, not because I'm concerned with being PC or any such thing, but because it truly is, to me, something so rude that I'd just never say it. It's not that I'm afraid someone might scold me - it's that *I* wouldn't be able to feel good about myself.

With stuff like that, it's not that you're more honest than I am, or that I'm lying to myself... it's that I have different opinions about some things than you do. Know what I mean? Just because someone has different sensibilities than I do, or you do, doesn't mean they're faking them or putting on a holier-than-thou act.

Anyway.

You remind me some of a woman I used to know - one day she came into the dentist's office I worked at with her arm in a cast. She was always telling us about her wild sexploits, so naturally we thought, you know, someone fell out of the bedroom swing or something. We asked what'd happened, and she said she'd wiped out on her Harley at a Labor Day dirt track race - but she still came in first.

She was 82 years old at the time. I don't think I have to tell you: The comparison is a compliment.

Anonymous said...

Oh dear, my last comment came out wrong. Sounds like I'm saying "oh my god you're so rude, I'd never say something like that and I'm so much better than you." Nope. Not what I meant.

Let me try it this way: There ARE people out there faking it and being PC and putting on a show for others' benefit, of course. But then there are people like you and me... you say what you think, I say what I think. I'm not putting on a PC, self-righteous act any more than you're going out of your way to try and shock people into paying attention. We both truly mean what we say.

(And of course when I say you and me, I'm referring to "people like you" and "people like me.")

Babsbitchin said...

Anonymous, I'm sorry but I do not see the real, "Oh you are so bad" thing. I may never. If you can't laugh at yourself or anything that is a reflection, you just can't laugh. Why is it that I am able to laugh at myself? Why is it ok for an entire film to be made sold and viewed on the butt of a joke, "White Men Can't Jump," but that's ok? It's all in perspective and I will go down fighting on this one. Now, I pulled the damn thing because for those people who "choose" to be offended I'm not trying to get ass hairs up. I'm just trying to have a good laugh here and it's not intended to be at anyone's expense. No more, let's say than myself.
I find you are an on the edge person, very intelligent, yet you can't see this, I don't understand?

Anonymous said...

Didn't quite follow you there (whew, it's early..). I get the gist of what you're saying, I think, but it's not quite gelling for some reason. ("some reason" probably = ~3 hours of sleep.)

I don't think "WMCJ" is any more okay than if they'd made a movie titled "Black Men Can Jump," you know? (Although, I am living proof of the stereotype that white girls can't dance... heh.)

I find something to laugh about in damn near everything - mostly at myself or life in general, occasionally at others, but there's... I dunno, to me there's a difference between laughing at what people DO and what people ARE. For instance, the idea that someone would put liquid paper on the computer screen to correct a mistake is funny (I've worked with people like this - hell, my mother is a person like this). The assumption that such a person must be a blonde, or that all blondes would be that dumb, is not funny. (I'm brunette, so I've got no dog in that fight.)

This is a heavier topic than is good for a comments section, plus I've got a lot on my plate at the moment, so I'm gonna back on out for now... when I get more time, if this is still on my mind, I might drop you an email if that's okay? Take it easy. (c:

Babsbitchin said...

Anonymous, find some sleep when you can. I am not as good as I once was when I don't have sleep. You are welcome to email me, anytime. You are right and I am right but you know what it equals=Chosen Perception.

mary said...

I'm feeling it my sista..I'm feeling it.

Who loves ya Baabsy
x0x0x0x0x0x

RICH said...

if you are refering to emg results... it's a mixed bag. Yes nerve conductions can show nerve damage for certain. It does define which nerves are damaged and can prove such disorders as neuropathies and motor neuron disease. As Electromyogram (EMG) shows muscle problems - myopathy and also compliments the nerve conductions as a diagnostic tool to confirm the above, that is why they are both done together. hope this helped. that will be $300.00 please.

Babsbitchin said...

Mary, my twin sister, how are ya? It's really, really good to hear from you. Hope you are well and thanks for having my back. Glad to see people still have a sense of laughter about them!
Big Love Sis!

Babsbitchin said...

Rich, I'll cut you a check in two weeks, payday, lol! I appreciate your answer. I feel like I don't want to go through this for nothing, ya know? My last one showed that the nerve was pinched and they did the rib resection, taking out the 1st and extra rib. But this is different. I know something is wrong and I get terrible headaches and spasms. I just really hate this test and maybe I'm trying to talk myself out of it. My Dr. kinda yelled at me and said I'd be an idiot if I didn't have it done, that old fart's mean as hell, lol! Thanks for the answer. Monday slowly approaches. I may have to stay sauced all weekend! BTW, I am known for drinking and blog driving, please forgive me if I get insane. I've read some of the shit I wrote the next day after a thorough binge and I am truly insane in the membrane, well, what's left of it.